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July 7, 2009

I visited my friend Denis last night.  We went for a walk in the neighborhood and admired the gigantic palm trees, the bougainvilla, and some of the renovations of homes.  It was a quiet late afternoon.

Denis made a light meal in his tiny, cozy cottage.  His bookshelf, while pared to the essentials holds many books on spirituality, symbols, theology, and art.  In talking with him, I realized that all his "people," his parents and grandparents were, in some way, involved in the arts.  His grandmother was an architect, his father a graphic artist and designer of fonts.  His grandfather was the director of an important crafts studio.  It made me believe that there must be a gene ruling esthetics.

Denis is a paragon of simplicity (he's my friend who attends Quaker meetings and does English country dancing.)  He only shops at thrift stores and yet has an extremely strong esthetic sense (like his ancestors.)  He related his concern about the green plaid shirt he was wearing "It only cost me $3.00," he confided, "but it's a bit too big in the shoulder, and the patch pocket should really be moved over an inch to be the right proportion." 

I knew exactly how he felt about this minor detail.  Only that morning, I had ironed a white linen shirt I've had for probbly fifteen years.  It's a large size, and I can't think why I would have bought a large, unless I really needed it for a beach cover up or something and that's all that was available.  I was thinking that it was too long, and wondering if I should take the trouble to hem it up.  Then I thought, "Who cares?"  Why do I obsess about something this trivial???  Who cares if I wear a shirt that is two inches too long? A shirt I haven't worn in fifteen years, for God's sake.

Denis had come to the same conclusion about his patch pocket, although he was only concerned that he might ruin the shirt if he tried; he wasn't existentially appalled at the level of triviality uncovered within his oul.

What I wonder is, what is it in us that is able to make the shift to let go of being preoccupied about whether something is "right" and come to the conclusion that it really doens't matter in the larger scheme of things?  Letting go seems to be a healthy step, and it does make life a little easer, if we don't have to go around altering every little detail of our clothing, for heaven's sake!  Why do I care about such frivolous details?

I think Denis and I both, perhaps, labor under what I'd like to call the curse of esthetics. 

I wonder how many other people obsess about such insignificant details (okay, I saw the wonderful film on Valentino, the great Italian clothes designer.  He certainly made a living off the details!)  But for Denis and me it's probably just as well to note the fine points of how things "should be," and move on!


 

 

 

 

 

 
Friday, July 3, 2009

Last Monday, Robert and I spent the afternoon in the back garden.  He puttered around with the rocks in the fountain, adjusting the protective grid he made to cover the tiny fish pond and rearranging some of the water plants.  He's taken quite a fancy to keeping the four little goldfish alive, and reading up on their care.

I planted a few new plants, and also spray-painted black some old frames in order to put up some of the photos and drawings I want to display in my office and front bedroom.  It's a project I've been wanting to do for awhile.

At twilight, I hand-wantered with the hose my new Santa Baraba daisies and fuschia-colored iceplants.  As I stood watering, the hummingbird who often comes into the yard, came right up close into my spray from the hose. She was only 12 inches away from me!  Thrilling.

It was a lovely day. 

 

 

 
Tuesday, June 23, 2009

My stone fountain and little pond in my back garden have become my new focus in the past couple of weeks.

Robert and I have been trying to get the ecosystem friendly to the little goldfish we put in the pond.  True to his mathematical mind's propensity to seek answers, Robert has read a lot about raising gold fish lately.

We've been sad to lose several fish since last year when we started putting them in the pond.  I so enjoy sitting on the rock next to the pond and gazing at them as they dart around.

The night after I returned from Lisbon,  a racoon raided the pond, and ate all but one black fish.  We were very upset.  Robert set about constructing something to put over the pond to protect it at night from predators.

After some experimentation, he built a removable lath and chicken wire "lid" to place over the main part of the pond.  It really works great.

We now have the black fish and three gold fish, more aquatic plants, an ammonia 'trap" and the protective lid.  In the late afternoon, the little fish swim out from their rock hiding place.  It's so fun to watch them. We stand and whisper to each other, noting each fish's position.

Robert read that fish can talk (!)  We think the black fish has been indoctrinating the new ones with tales of the racoon's murderous raid, and noting our clumsy splashing around adding gravel, plants, and the protection device. 

This is our anthropomorphic explanation of why they seem reluctant to come out from under the rocks.

 

 
May 25, 2009

Some of you have asked to see the photos from my son, Gunther's recent ride for Tour de Cure, the fundraiser for the American Diabetes Association.  You can click here to see him and Anders (who has Type 1) and his brother, August.

 

http://picasaweb.google.com/rohrer.gunther/TourDeCure2009

Tomorrow I leave for Milan for the two-day numerology seminar, and Lisbon for the conference in Portugal.

 

 

 
Sunday May 17, 2009

I know I have not written in a long time. Should one feel guilty for not blogging enough?

It's been a beautiful spring

Cleaning out old files

Changing the desk in my study for a simpler, lighter look

Weeding

Buying and planting pink and purple flowers

Observing the five tiny fish in my funny tiny pond

Reading library books to Auggie and Anders on the couch on the deck

Making polenta with mushroom marinara sauce and

Shrimp in coconut sauce

Talking with my old friend, Jaye and her daughter, Palin, who are visiting from New Mexico

Going to the Andy Warhol exhibit with Jaye and Palin. Being fascinated by his four "video auditions" of the members of the Velvet Underground--(each man just looks steadily at the camera, hardly moving; one of them slowly drags on a cigarette) mesmerizing.  I realize how much Warhol has affected my viewpoint.  He said he liked boring things.  I like repetition and monotonous sounds, rain, music like chanting, didgeridoo sounds.

Going with Rainey to the Fraenkle Gallery for the last day of the exhibit of photographers who captured a view of the world much like Edward Hopper.  I fell in love with one beautiful photograph of a store window empty of everything except a small, old-fashioned adding machine with a crank handle.  The sign on the store said Calculators.  This image is as beautiful as a Vermeer to me.  It IS a Vermeer!  The light quality, the serenity, the creamy colors, the interior space. Timeless.

Art.  You gotta love it. 

 

 

 
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