Dear Thomas, I am very excited to guide you through your Relationship Personality Profile—which is based on the numerology of your birth name and birth date.
For the past forty years, I have counseled thousands of clients. Typically the two main areas in which people seem to get stuck are career and love. Therefore, I decided to create this relationship profile to focus directly on your personality as it relates to others. This profile identifies your tendencies, traits, strengths, and certain weaknesses, in order to help you understand yourself and your relationships.
You may wish to highlight the parts of the descriptions that immediately ring true for you. You may want to reflect on the descriptions which don't seem to fit. Try asking others if they think the descriptions fit you in their own experiences of being with you. Perhaps a discussion will reveal a little more of how others see you and the impact you make.
May you meet good people, find the love and connection you desire, and the fulfillment of your spiritual purpose.
Author of The Purpose of Your Life, The Numerology Kit and The Celestine Prophecy Experiential Guide.
Sensitive, intense, compelling, and friendly. Thomas, your charismatic and social first letter T draws people like a magnet. Most definitely a people-person, you love a good time, and feel downcast if you don't have plans to meet friends soon. You come across as optimistic (with a tinge of self-deprecating sarcasm), jovial, entertaining and not overly high-maintenance, usually being willing to go along with the crowd. You thrive on being the center of attention and have backlogs of amusing stories.
With a pronounced esthetic and love of “looking good,” you have a range of clothes for different occasions from romantic and flashy to retro and sporty. As a T male, you may enjoy wearing linen shirts, soft terrycloth spa robes, graphic T's, or jeans with sport coat and tie. At home, it's shorts if possible. Female T's also keep a range of sexy blouses, long skirts, skinny jeans, and active wear for the gym or yoga. T's seek to seduce through the eyes.
If feeling insecure. You tend to cover a bad moment with a quick apology or too much talking—maybe even silly jokes. For you more than most, not being accepted is akin to agony. If attempting to get back into someone's good graces, you naturally turn to sweet talking, self-deprecation, and flattery.
Thomas, the first impulse of your first vowel “O” is: To think about future consequences.
To counsel. To provide care and assistance. Your natural instinct is restrained and sympathetic. You look for the best solution for all and for the long run. If O is also the first letter of your first name, you may have an especially paternalistic or maternalistic approach to others.
Friends may tease you a bit about your careful, calm approach, but you are one person they feel they could always turn to if need be. Always on the alert to guide, correct, or provide, you have a knack for diagnosis. Your mind is akin to a computer scanning through theories and info, searching for methods that you can apply to issues or problems.
You take pride in never letting down a friend, but can sometimes be secretly critical of those who do not pull their own weight. Loyal and deeply responsible, you will easily sacrifice for those you love. You believe in demonstrating love by actions rather than words. If your O is combined with another vowel, you may have trouble understanding others or clearly expressing your thoughts.
Possible pitfalls in relationship: Opinionated. A need to be “right' and to do what's right keeps you a little tightly strung. A philosopher at heart and attuned to the world's ills, you often feel it's your duty to enlighten others about how things could be better. Old-fashioned. You are not convinced that “new” is better. If you have many O's in your name, you may be slow to make decisions. Closed. If uncertain or insecure, you retreat into your shell, or are reluctant to share personal information, or make decisions. Overworked. A drive to meet obligations or challenging circumstances could cause you to overlook your own needs. You could safely marry someone like yourself, but you might ultimately have more fun choosing a partner who is independent, forward-thinking, and who keeps you on your toes.
Your Day of Birth, Thomas, highlights particular qualities that come across in your approach to others—both strengths and weaknesses.
Top Strength: Vitality. Thomas, as an upbeat and enthusiastic person, you enjoy immersing yourself in various scenarios—up to the point that you could start to feel taken advantage of. You are happiest with a good-looking, flexible partner, who doesn't question your every move. You tend to think, “Live and let live.” However, when someone close to you seems to be screwing up, you become more critical and directive. Possible Relationship Issues: Jealousy. Possessiveness. Extravagance or debt. A battle of wills, causing you to take a stern, parental attitude. Procrastination or lateness. Key: Discuss plans and goals realistically, rather than assuming that you both are on the same page.
|Harmony Rating||Birthdate of mate|
|Easiest||1, 3, 5, 6, 9, 10, 12, 15, 18, 21, 23, 26, 27, 28, 30|
|Possibly challenging||4, 8, 13, 14, 16, 17, 19, 22, 25, 31|
And now, Thomas, let's see how your full month, day, and year of birth describes your natural personality—to understand why and how you interact with others as you do, and how others see you.
Your natural personality is: A reluctant leader. An independent thinker. Active. Subtly witty. Cerebral. Innovative. Original. Somewhat perfectionistic.
Under stress you may become: Uncertain about your real goals. Reluctant to step into a leadership position, overly-modest, indecisive, prone to second-guessing yourself, and sensitive to criticism.
As a Nineteen/One, Thomas, your Birthpath carries a karmic purpose—to learn to believe in yourself and to take positive action when integrity is in question. One of your life tasks is to be able to face public scrutiny without fearing you will be judged inadequate. Your karmic number reminds you (subconsciously) that in a past life you may have abused your position and power, or suffered at the hands of a crowd. In this lifetime you may find yourself thrust into leadership roles, despite not feeling ready. In a relationship, you may choose someone who likes the front place role so you can hide a little bit.
Honor and integrity are all-important. You unconsciously seek to avoid any risk of public disapproval, or are fearful of making a mistake that would affect others. However, you easily stand up for the rights of others—especially your spouse and offspring. In a relationship you may lead from behind.
|Harmony Rating||Birthdate of mate|
|Easiest||8, 12, 17, 20, 22, 23, 26, 30, 31|
|Possibly challenging||1, 2, 7, 9, 14, 16, 19, 25, 29|
So far, Thomas, we have seen the first impression you make, your first impulse in a situation, and your strengths and personality traits. Now let's take a look at what you want to do, what you desire. We call this your Heart's Desire number.
What makes your heart sing:
What your heart seeks in relationship:
|Harmony Rating||Birthdate of mate|
|Easiest||3, 6, 9, 12, 15, 17, 18, 21, 22, 23, 24, 26, 27, 30, 31|
|Possibly challenging||1, 2, 4, 7, 10, 11, 13, 14, 16, 25, 29|
Finally, Thomas, we take a look at the number of your Destiny, as defined by your birth name. Here is what your Destiny highlights and indicates in terms of your relationships.
The key traits necessary for you to carry out your Four Destiny are tenacity, endurance, practicality, and common-sense. Your Destiny is to build and maintain the products, services, and systems that keep humanity healthy, fed, clothed, housed, secure, and educated. With your Four Destiny, marriage is extremely likely because of your need for stability, and your capacities for deep love, caring and providing for others.
Romantic type: Dependable. With a Four Destiny marriage is almost a given. In some cases you marry your childhood sweetheart. Otherwise, you may wait until finances or career are in order before tying the knot. Engagements could be long.
Family life: Sometimes stressful, but with strong bonds. Often both you and your mate are working hard, and children need to pitch in. Grandparents may be an important factor in this family. With your Four Destiny, you tend to be happiest with a mate who is a little more flexible than yourself, but who has similar life values.
Possible relationship issues: Resistance to change. Financial problems. Especially if born on the 4th, 13th, or 22nd, be aware of a tendency to nag or try to "improve" your partner. If your parents did not outwardly express affection, you may also be reserved in public displays of affection; you prefer to show your love with practical actions. Since deception is repugnant to you, extramarital affairs on your side are unlikely.
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